Showing posts with label muslimah perspective. Show all posts
Showing posts with label muslimah perspective. Show all posts

Thursday, May 10, 2012

Muslimahs in Sports: An Article

Salaam alaikum wa rahmat Allah wa barakatuh everyone!  Insh'Allah you're all well and in the best of health and the highest of iman.  I came across this article on Muslim women participating in athletics, specifically competing in the Olympics.  Read it HERE.

The article brought up a very interesting topic...veiled athletes vs. non-veiled athletes.  I personally think that it's a shame, though it's not very surprising, that people/the media are so focused on what women are wearing and their physical appearance rather than their athletic accomplishments.  I find it sad that clerics in Algeria called Hassiba Boulmerka "anti-Islam", and that she received death threats simply because she chose to compete in a traditional track suit (yes, it's not exactly good hijab for a woman...or even a MAN for that matter, to wear track shorts...but sheesh, that doesn't automatically mean that she's not Muslim, or that she's AGAINST Islam, subhan'Allah...although I myself wear large headscarves and abayas, I'm so sick and tired of people making assumptions like this about sisters who chose not to cover *rant*).  I also find it sad that the American fencer Ibtihaj Muhammad probably gets far more questions about wearing the hijab than she does about her training regimen, etc.

On another note...I'm thrilled that at each Olympics there are increasing numbers of veiled Muslimah athletes...I really think they should serve as an inspiration for all of us Muslimahs to be active and take care of the bodies that Allah(swt) gave us.  There is a lot of cultural (notice I said CULTURAL, not religious) pressure for Muslim women not to participate in sports or an active lifestyle as it's not "modest" for us to do so.  This kind of attitude only hurts Muslim women, because it severely limits us with what we can do in order to keep our bodies healthy.  I personally do not see why there is any reason why a veiled Muslimah cannot participate in sports while still maintaining her modesty.  What do you think?

Monday, August 9, 2010

Ramadan is Just Around the Corner!!

Alhamdolillah, it's that time of year again...Ramadan starts tomorrow night, insh'Allah!!
I'm so excited because Ramadan is my absolute favorite time of the year!

I have a really good feeling about this Ramadan because alhamdolillah I feel like I've made an effort to prepare myself this year, and I really hope that insh'Allah I can fully benefit from this blessed month.

Here are some of the goals I have created for myself:
- use my time wisely
- make an effort to spiritually re-connect with Allah(swt)
- offer my fard salaat on time, and offer sunnah prayers as well
- pray tarawih in congregation every night I can at the local Islamic center
- look for Laylat ul Qadr in the odd nights of the last 10 days of Ramadan (remember that according to the Islamic calendar, a new day starts at Maghrib, so insh'Allah look for Laylat ul Qadr on the nights of the 20th, 22nd, 24th, 26th, 28th days of Ramadan, because these will be the ODD nights!)
- finish the Qur'an in ARABIC (for me this is gonna be a stretch, but insh'Allah I'll do it!)
- start taking Qur'an classes on the weekends at the local Islamic center so that I can insh'Allah improve my Qur'an reading and comprehension skills
- read the Qur'an in ENGLISH with TAFSEER
- read my abridged version of hadith by Bukhari
- do some other Islamic reading when I'm feeling "bored" (as opposed to watching mindless TV)
- be more charitable

WOW looks like I'm gonna be busy, insh'Allah! I know that a lot of people probably share a lot of the same goals as I have, but I'm still curious to know, what are your personal goals for this Ramadan?

p.s. sorry for being MIA for a couple months...eep! I will try to be posting more often, even if it is about silly little things like what I ate for Iftar and Suhoor lol :P

May Allah(swt) grant you all a blessed and successful Ramadan, and may He(swt) accept your fasting and all of your good deeds, ameen!

Tuesday, May 18, 2010

My Thoughts on the New Miss USA

Salaam alaikum wa rahmat Allah wa barakatuh everyone,

I thought I'd start off my postings on this blog with a little discussion of the new Miss USA who was crowned last night.

So, if you haven't heard, the winner this year is a Lebanese-American woman by the name of Rima Fakih. Why am I bothering doing a post on this, may you ask? Well, because the media is making a big deal out of the fact that Ms. Fakih is the "first Muslim to win the Miss USA pageant." I really think that "first non-practicing Muslim" or simply the "first Arab-American woman" would have been a MUCH better choice for the title...but hey, that wouldn't have sparked nearly as much controversy or grabbed the attention of the public quite as well now, would it have?

Before I go any further, Allah(swt) knows best how practicing or non-practicing a Muslim Ms. Fakih really is, and I would like to state that in order to prevent back-biting, I am going to try my best not to pass judgement on Ms. Fakih's character. Instead, I will be commenting on the situation in general, and not specifically on Ms. Fakih as a person.

I am very much an opponent of beauty pageants in the first place, and this situation just strikes me as being very contradictory. This is exactly the type of behavior that Allah(swt) wants us to avoid! Islam came to protect women and to give them rights...and beauty pageants which encourage the objectifying of women, and the reduction of a woman's worth down to her physical beauty do the exact opposite of that! So why a Muslim woman would want to degrade herself by participating in a beauty pageant is beyond me. Personally, I would shudder at the mere thought of parading in front of millions of people in only a skimpy little bikini, but hey, maybe that's just me...

Modesty (for BOTH men AND women) is not the only aspect of Islam, but it certainly is a very big aspect of my faith. A beauty pageant, like the Miss USA pageant, encourages the exact opposite, not only in dress, but also in actions. Beauty pageants go against what Allah(swt) says in Surah 24 Ayah 31:
"And say to the believing women that they cast down their looks and guard their private parts and do not display their ornaments except what appears thereof, and let them wear their head-coverings over their bosoms, and not display their ornaments except to their husbands or their fathers, or the fathers of their husbands, or their sons, or the sons of their husbands, or their brothers, or their brothers' sons, or their sisters' sons, or their women, or those whom their right hands possess, or the male servants not having need (of women), or the children who have not attained knowledge of what is hidden of women; and let them not strike their feet so that what they hide of their ornaments may be known; and turn to Allah all of you, O believers! so that you may be successful."

and in Surah 33 Ayah 59:
"O Prophet! say to your wives and your daughters and the women of the believers that they let down upon them their over-garments; this will be more proper, that they may be known, and thus they will not be given trouble; and Allah is Forgiving, Merciful."

as well as what the Prophet(saws) said:
"Faith (Belief) consists of more than sixty branches (i.e. parts). And Haya (This term "Haya" covers a large number of concepts which are to be taken together; amongst them are self respect, modesty, bashfulness, and scruple, etc.) is a part of faith." (sahih Bukhari book 2 hadith 8)

...so it just baffles my mind as to why any Muslim woman who has knowledge of her deen and respect for herself and for Allah(swt) would want to participate in a beauty pageant and objectify herself in front of millions of people...many of whom are men who have very dirty thoughts (if you don't believe me just read through some of the comments on pageant videos, if you are so inclined). However, Allah(swt) has blessed all human beings with free will, which means that we are not forced to follow what He(swt) states in the Qur'an, or the sunnah of the Prophet(saws), and if you really want to, there's nothing stopping you from parading yourself around in skimpy outfits for people to judge you on your physical beauty. It's just personally, I choose to obey Allah(swt), and I cover myself and try to incorporate the principles of haya in my life to the best of my ability out of respect and love for my Creator.

I guess the real problem I have with this is that the media is playing up and pushing the fact that Ms. Fakih is a MUSLIM woman (even though they don't really even know if she actually is Muslim or a Christian...it's kind of vague, but Allah(swt) knows best). I really wish they would have just stuck with "Arab-American" and had forgone the "Muslim" part altogether. It bothers me because it seems like they're trying to send a message that "hey, this woman is a Muslim...therefore her beliefs and actions reflect how all Muslim women should believe and behave. More Muslim women should take a cue from her and 'integrate' themselves into society and behave more 'modern.'" I'm probably going to be getting questions now along the lines of, "so, she wore a bikini on national television, why can't you?" To which I would respond with the aforementioned statement about how Allah(swt) gave us all free will. And yes, I would still have a problem (probably even MORE of a problem) if Ms. Fakih wore hijab.

So what do you think?